Kajetan Skrzypczak
Kajetan Skrzypczak voted up Tom Jackson's answer

"I've spent so much money in the wedding and put all of my effort in this 8 year relationship since I was 18 yrs old."

I know that you have put an incredible amount of time and resources into having a future together for the two of you.

Any two people who marry and then later divorce … Read more

Kajetan Skrzypczak
Kajetan Skrzypczak voted up Bikergirl Anonymous' answer

Sounds to me as if he is fighting you and your relationship based on his obsessive imagination, and perhaps even a level of his wanting to sabotage your relationship because he is so intent on finding fault with you that may help him "justify" his own mistakes. He is as untrusting as he is untrustworthy.  … Read more