Sure, it can be gross sometimes, especially if there is "residue" afterward. But it can also be extremely relieving--a lot of things that are relieving are gross, I've found.

Not now, I am pickier as far as opposite sex company --------but when I was in my late teens and twenties, yes,  I did naturally want to be around boys and young men. It's a way to learn who and what type of person you will do best with in a relationship, and it teaches … Read more

I hang out with whom ever I am hanging out with. And I seldom hang out with children, boys or girls.