I always find nice shirts at Macy's and J.C. Penney. Seem to be of better quality. Two good stores !
Burlington Coat Factory has some nice shirts at a reasonable price, in the store or online.
Myself and my sister jean who recently died everybody thought we were twins when we worked road construction long ago . It never bothered me she was five yrs older than me
I think it's good to look different from your family members because if anyone ever said I looked like my mother I'd cut a " bee-ach " not literally..... But I would.