Ida-Marie Evans
Ida-Marie Evans voted up Robert Deniro's answer
Ex of 3 years wants to be friends for now, but goes out with me and gets close with me(butt grabbing holding hands, cuddle). She talks to me on the phone and text a lot as well when she's not with her friends?

She's playing a game, and you're the star!! When she gets bored and has no one else then she manipulates you and plays you like a puppet. She's so good at it you don't even realize you're being used.

Ida-Marie Evans
Ida-Marie Evans voted up Anonymous' answer
Ex of 3 years wants to be friends for now, but goes out with me and gets close with me(butt grabbing holding hands, cuddle). She talks to me on the phone and text a lot as well when she's not with her friends?

I have an ex I remained friends with.  We started as friends, tried dating, but I just couldn't deal with his intimacy issues, and we decided in the long run we were better off as just friends.

One thing you need to establish is boundaries.  If you want to be the "friends with benefits" guy or … Read more

Ida-Marie Evans
Ida-Marie Evans voted up Anonymous' answer
Ex of 3 years wants to be friends for now, but goes out with me and gets close with me(butt grabbing holding hands, cuddle). She talks to me on the phone and text a lot as well when she's not with her friends?

You are worth more then that! You are just her "toy," her "go to guy," her "safe bet." She assumes you will always be there if her relationships don't work out. I am so sorry but you are being used. You deserve better treatment then that.