Zbigniew Matkowski
Zbigniew Matkowski voted up Anonymous' answer

I know a girl who had the same problem.  The problem was she tried too hard.  She came off as needy and weird.  Not cool at all.

Eventually she got desperate and tried all the wrong things.  She stepped on people's toes (figuratively) and started things.  She just went about it all wrong.

My advice here,  is … Read more

Zbigniew Matkowski
Zbigniew Matkowski voted up DDX Project's answer

That's the real world.

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How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

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