Horacy Oles
Horacy Oles voted up Tinkerbell St. Basil's answer

Weird question, huh? Well, I have a weird answer... My advice IS to give up! Perhaps you are trying too hard. Desperation is not an attractive quality and can usually be spotted by potential suitors. Concentrate on bettering yourself and be independent. Love will definitely find you and oftentimes comes when you're not looking. 💜