Stanislaw Piecuch voted up Jaimie JT's answer 4/14/2016 Are people around you eager to give you some sort of trite maxim or moral (or even "'lifestage' direction suggestion") to a negative experience story entirely and artificially created by them and completely forced and superimposed onto you, your life and your experiences in general? I don't know :( I think you're tripping me out though. I'm gonna go to sleep now then.