Nikolas Rodziewicz
Nikolas Rodziewicz voted up Anonymous' answer
If something is bothering me so much that, that's all I can think about. Should I talk to the person who is the caused of the problem?
I try to talk to them about it but they would ignore me. then later on I try again they said something that hurt. 4 days later they apologize and said they were ready to talk, but I was still hurt and I ignore them to keep myself calm. I messaged them apologizing for ignoring them and why, and if we can talk about it. Now they are ignoring me, I really need to talk to them and put everything in the past and work on our relationship. I don't understand why they are ignoring me, when I didn't cause this problems.

thanks for anyone answering.

Just give it a little more time, eventually you'll both be on the same page and ready to talk.

Nikolas Rodziewicz
Nikolas Rodziewicz voted up Anonymous' answer
If something is bothering me so much that, that's all I can think about. Should I talk to the person who is the caused of the problem?
I try to talk to them about it but they would ignore me. then later on I try again they said something that hurt. 4 days later they apologize and said they were ready to talk, but I was still hurt and I ignore them to keep myself calm. I messaged them apologizing for ignoring them and why, and if we can talk about it. Now they are ignoring me, I really need to talk to them and put everything in the past and work on our relationship. I don't understand why they are ignoring me, when I didn't cause this problems.

thanks for anyone answering.

Well you should give it few days... Go about the person with an open mind and nothing to fight them with... If your going to resolve this problem you can't go up to them (or text them) with attitude... So just give it time

(Sorry I'm bad at answering problems)