Todd Hibbert
Todd Hibbert voted up Barb Cala's answer

If she's not in a committed relationship with either of them, it's her choice if she wants to date more than one guy at a time.  She's even being honest with both of them and they're obviously OK with it.  I think you should stay out of it.  You cheated on your husband which is … Read more

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Todd Hibbert thanked Barb Cala's answer

If she's not in a committed relationship with either of them, it's her choice if she wants to date more than one guy at a time.  She's even being honest with both of them and they're obviously OK with it.  I think you should stay out of it.  You cheated on your husband which is … Read more

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Todd Hibbert voted up Darik Majoren's answer

Perhaps your daughter has become the teacher . . And you the pupil.

Honest and open communication is healthy . . If she is able to achieve this and all three participants are being treated fairly . . And no one is getting hurt . . What harm is it?

You should make more efforts to … Read more

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Todd Hibbert thanked Darik Majoren's answer

Perhaps your daughter has become the teacher . . And you the pupil.

Honest and open communication is healthy . . If she is able to achieve this and all three participants are being treated fairly . . And no one is getting hurt . . What harm is it?

You should make more efforts to … Read more

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Todd Hibbert thanked Jann Nikka's answer

Use good reliable birth control.

No matter what we say you're going to have sex with him.

Use good reliable birth control.

As AH said discuss your thoughts with your father.

Use good reliable birth control.

Make sure you have his name correctly,  just in case you need to put it on the birth certificate.

Use … Read more

Todd Hibbert
Todd Hibbert voted up Jann Nikka's answer

Use good reliable birth control.

No matter what we say you're going to have sex with him.

Use good reliable birth control.

As AH said discuss your thoughts with your father.

Use good reliable birth control.

Make sure you have his name correctly,  just in case you need to put it on the birth certificate.

Use … Read more

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Todd Hibbert voted up Walt O'Reagun's answer

Actually ... Your daughter is correct.

As long as everybody is aware, it's not "cheating".

In fact, it used to be quite common that females would have multiple "suitors" at the same time.  After all, the point of dating is to determine the type of person you want to spend your life with.  And if you limit … Read more

Todd Hibbert
Todd Hibbert thanked Walt O'Reagun's answer

Actually ... Your daughter is correct.

As long as everybody is aware, it's not "cheating".

In fact, it used to be quite common that females would have multiple "suitors" at the same time.  After all, the point of dating is to determine the type of person you want to spend your life with.  And if you limit … Read more

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Todd Hibbert thanked Cookie Roma's answer

Wait.  She's the child, you're the parent.  Tell her what you know and that this ends now.  Her life needs to change NOW!!!  This will likely mean you'll have to remove all kinds of communication.  That would be a start. Yes, she will likely be very angry at you but that's why it's not call … Read more

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Todd Hibbert thanked Anonymous' answer

I have a daughter and this is what I would do, right or wrong. I would sit them both down and tell them exactly how I feel--I know what you two are doing and it must stop. You two are teenagers and I don't want to be a grandparent yet. I would tell the young … Read more