I don't care for wine or German chocolate cake much but I love rich chocolate Lava cakes and will drink my beer sometimes ! LOL
I'll take the wine. My mantra is better a wino than a whiner! :)
Block her emails and any other form of communication. Keep all things she sends to you, and get a restraining order if you are in fear. The restraining order will allow the police to arrest her should she come around you.