I figured it out on my own when I was about 12.  I didn't tell my parents until I was 14, and it was really hard for me (I have trouble communicating to people to begin with...).  I also forgive very quickly (one of my biggest flaws at times), so if your daughter isn't quite … Read more

Let them figure it out on their own.

Just prepare a spiel for if they ever ask you about it. Like how Santa Claus was used to keep them well-behaved and be good little boys and girls.

Most kids figure it out on their own. Why take away the the magic? We should all never stop believing.

Most kids figure it out on their own. Why take away the the magic? We should all never stop believing.