If you were to confess anything to a BlurtIt member, what would you say honestly to them?

I was trundling round the Bedfordshire lanes today, when on the entrance to one of the villages was a policeman with one of those quaint hand-held speed guns. He waved three fingers at me, presumably to show me that the speed limit was 30 mph. When I used the same mechanism to indicate that I was only doing 20 mph he got extremely upset, and insisted on stopping me.

That I'm aged 28 and still sleep with my teddy bear. Or that my collection of stuffed Teletubbies dolls stay on my bed during the daytime. Or that I cried my eyes out watching the film Marley And Me.

I would confess that when men I know well from Ask and now on Blurtit ,speak to other men, usually young, confused men, all about relationships with women, I get little crushes.  These crushes don't last too long.  It's really heartwarming to see seasoned men who have long-term successful and loving relationships with women and daughters speak to how that happens.  It's usually aimed at young men who think they can behave any way they want, even callously, and that the natural consequences are wrong.  When those older men address those topics, I am so terribly grateful that they bother.  Those are my kind of men.  I love it when they talk like that.