Yin and Yang
Yin and Yang answered

Why is your mom bringing you to stay the night at some dudes house who she says is CRAZY! She is just asking for trouble! I hope this was a troll question and there isn't some "mom" out there THIS stupid!

Walt O'Reagun
Walt O'Reagun answered

The whole point of dating is to experience as many people as possible, in order to decide what type of person you want to marry.

Thus, dating more than 1 person at a time is reasonable ... And actually used to be the norm until recently in human history.

So really, people who want monogamous dating relationships … Read more

Danae Hitch
Danae Hitch answered

This is a young man that is telling you that you are not enough for him. He will constantly be wanting more. I don't need to waste my time with someone that doesn't value me as I am. You need to decide if your time is worth more than what he is giving you. If … Read more

Dark Majinn
Dark Majinn answered

No.

As Hippy mentioned they can negatively react with certain medications.

Also, you may want to note . . . It doesn't increase in size with Viagra, it merely allows better blood flow which results in an erection. So to be clear . . He will have the erection he always had . . . And not … Read more

Yin and Yang
Yin and Yang answered

My first thoughts are if you have to ask if that is okay then obviously it is not okay with you. Don't sit on boys laps, friend or no friend! Have respect for yourself and they will to.

Tom  Jackson
Tom Jackson answered

Well, if you met in pre-K, even 10 years older is still too young.

All (98%) of us humans are hardwired to "mate."  And every woman is a "potential" mate for every heterosexual male---and vice-versa.

That is the basic reality that underlines your question "Is this okay?"

A general answer is that it's normal, but not all normal … Read more

Dark Majinn
Dark Majinn answered

Let's ask the person this should really matter to . . .

"How did it make you feel?"

If you can address your feelings to what happened and you are okay with it, you might be moving on to being MORE then friends . . Or  in need of a physical connection . . . … Read more

Danae Hitch
Danae Hitch answered

This is a personal question that you yourself must answer. Were you comfortable or uncomfortable that he touched you this way? If you were uncomfortable, did you tell him? Why or why not? If this were me, knowing what I know now about men, I wouldn't sit on a guy's lap. This really can arouse … Read more

Dark Majinn
Dark Majinn answered

If you cannot "Change his mind" simply by using your womanly ways . . . Then perhaps you are not as attractive as you would have hoped . . Or you are not attractive TO HIM.

Men are visual animals . . . It usually only takes a revelation of additional epidermis, not usually privy … Read more

Walter The Grump
Walter The Grump answered

You can't make or force anyone to have sex with you--that is called rape. Turn the situation around and look at it as if you didn't want to have sex, but your boyfriend does. How would you feel? Wouldn't that be awful and wrong? How about treating him kindly, show him how attractive he is … Read more

Danae Hitch
Danae Hitch answered

Just an FYI, you cannot force someone to have sex with you. If he's not in the mood, that's his privilege. You are also entitled to feel "not in the mood".

You might try and find out if there's something on his mind and try and talk about it. Is he worried about his job, his … Read more