They don't want me as a husband to their daughter, because they think she can have better than me, and i have a lot of bad points as a record in my life. We are struggling with them and she wants me so bad and i i want to marry her as soon as possible because iam so in love with her. What can i do to make her parents agree? And how ?
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It's hard to make someone like you. You just have to hang in there and show them how much you love their daughter and that you are going to try your hardest to be a great addition to the family.
answered 10 months ago
You need to find out what their expectations are and if you can meet them. For the record: Very few parents think that guy is good enough for their daughter during the first few months of a relationship. It's up to you to prove otherwise.
answered 10 months ago
It is never easy to get future in laws to accept you. The first thing you need to do is understand where they are coming from and the many reasons they don't care for you. I would guess that your previous history has something to do with it but there are still many more things. You are taking away the love of their lives and what they have toiled over for many years to give her a proper upbringing. You may look at it as they are gaining a son (in law) but they are probably more focused on them loosing a daughter. It may be a good approach to make sure they know that you are not going to take her love for her parents away from them.
You must also show them that you will be able to care for her in the future. That is, show them that you have long term goals that will provide a good lifestyle for her and you. A [plan for children, career, finance, housing. Things don't always work exactly as planned but as long as they know you have a path and you are able to account for those unplanned events as well, then I would think they would slowly come around to understand how much you care for their daughter.
I might also advise from my previous history. DO NOT RUSH MARRIAGE! I can understand that you have a strong love for her but rushing things is never good and I am sure that her parents will wonder if there is an alterior motive if you rush into it.
answered 10 months ago
Take them all on a date.pay for it,make a honorable joke,talk,talk and then seek results.
answered 10 months ago
It will take time and a whole lot of patience. I'm going through the same thing and my parents want nothing to do with my boyfriend, but with a little proof that your the man to be, there shouldn't be a problem. If you are meant to be together, it will happen maybe just in a different way.
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