sandy stegmaier
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Confidence....Humor....and just be yourself.  If you are not comfortable with who you are, people can't be comfortable either.  Chances are she might be just as insecure about the same things.  Remember....a good relationship must always have TWO things:  HONESTY and TRUST...You can't trust someone who's not honest...and you can't respect someone you can't trust.