What girls don't know, is that men are very simple and easy to please.  They always try and make guys into something they aren't even capable of being, then get all bent out of shape when the guy doesn't do things their way.  I totally understand why men can't figure out women.  Women dream too … Read more

FIND A NEW BOYFRIEND.  DO NOT think you are ever going to change anyone, because chances are you won't.  Just move on.

NOBODY just changes after 20 years.  You BOTH would have to spend quite a bit of time with a marriage counselor in order for anything to change between you two.

I don't know either of you, so I can't say.  I don't have any desire to be friends with my ex.