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Anuva Gloria commented 10/26/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

Well nothing progressed on my side too..I stopped talking and after a week of this..he sends me a smiley when I;m offline..I send him one.. again no reply! What is happening?!!! What should I do!

Anuva Gloria voted up Lia Tan's answer 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

Well he hasn't shown any definite signs that he doesn't like you. Just because he doesn't initiate conversation, doesn't mean that he can't be interested in you in the future. It could just mean he's shy or that he has a lot on his mind. So don't take that as necessarily a bad thing.

That's why, … Read more

Anuva Gloria commented 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

But seriously why do guys do this ! Surely if I go and ask him out or say I like him the butterflies will die seeing his reaction! AAHHHH! Okay! I wont talk until he starts to otherwise its pointless.

Anuva Gloria commented 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

If you have time keep in touch! share your feelings..as this is more soothing than anything in the world for me now! I'll try diverting from all this craziness. I'll go back to learning. I'll start applying for higher studies. And also I'll be your distraction :D

Anuva Gloria commented 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

Thanks a lot girl! ** hugs ** Girls and long messages co-exist! so the more you send the more relieved i will be. Good to know that we are sailing on the same ship (obviously not happy for what we are going through). These mixed signals are killing me! Anyway maybe he's also confused like … Read more

Anuva Gloria commented on angie zhang's answer 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

Thanks Angie! " but dont dwell on this love interest" this is what happens these days..I'm totally living on it! Please read the complete story below and give me your suggestions .

Anuva Gloria commented on Lia Tan's answer 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

Thanks Lia! Trying to give my best..hope everything falls in place soon :) Please read the comment below which is pretty much what happened till date. Waiting for your suggestions :)

Anuva Gloria answered 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

Thanks people! Here goes the full version of what happened till now which i drafted but couldn't ask because of the char count. Sad or funny please read it :)

Judge me! Suggest me! Help me! :D

I like this guy at office who sits next to me..he's smart , intelligent and funny(don't think i'm desperate)..but … Read more

Anuva Gloria thanked Lia Tan's answer 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

Well he hasn't shown any definite signs that he doesn't like you. Just because he doesn't initiate conversation, doesn't mean that he can't be interested in you in the future. It could just mean he's shy or that he has a lot on his mind. So don't take that as necessarily a bad thing.

That's why, … Read more

Anuva Gloria thanked angie zhang's answer 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

hey :) well firstly you might not actually like him , i think its the fact he has all the factors you want for your personal reference of a good husband . Although you say he isnt much of a conversation starter this doesnt mean he doesnt like you , maybe he is that type … Read more

Anuva Gloria voted up angie zhang's answer 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

hey :) well firstly you might not actually like him , i think its the fact he has all the factors you want for your personal reference of a good husband . Although you say he isnt much of a conversation starter this doesnt mean he doesnt like you , maybe he is that type … Read more

Anuva Gloria voted up Lia Tan's answer 10/19/2013

I have this huge crush on this guy at office.He matches too perfectly to what I frame my future husband as.But the prob is he never initiates a convo Should I go ahead or should I cut it to avoid complications?

Well he hasn't shown any definite signs that he doesn't like you. Just because he doesn't initiate conversation, doesn't mean that he can't be interested in you in the future. It could just mean he's shy or that he has a lot on his mind. So don't take that as necessarily a bad thing.

That's why, … Read more