Are you taking your time? Are you using plenty of lube? Are you pressuring her into doing it but she wasn't that keen to do it? (ie she is not mentally relaxed to do it and get in the mood

People labour under ignorance about the beginnings of Islam and think that it came about at the same time as Christianity. Perhaps you could talk about the beginnings of Islam and when?

Lol when you meet the right person and reply yes, or get the reply yes. Then you can prepare and set a date!