Well, I know quite well what you are going through. I have been married for the past 26 years (to the same woman), and I did tell her that when she turned 40, I was going to trade her in for two 20's! I'm 57, she's 59 (I like older women, they are more experienced) … Read more

If the cat has a problem following the rules of your household, then go get a water gun from the toy store and fill it with tap water. When the cat does something it isn't suppose to do, call its name out and then hit it with a couple of water shots to the side … Read more

Depending on which country you reside in, there are low-cost programs available from animal protection groups, like the ASPCA and Humane Society in the USA to address such an issue. I believe there is also such a low cost program in the U.K. as well. Some, might even offer it for free to low-income, handicapped … Read more