Hmmm... Well, it is an extremely powerful part of a man's instincts to look at a woman's body, including her curves, breasts, legs, etc. However, add to that the fact that he JUST WANTS TO. If you saw a beautiful sunset you would want to look at it, simply because it is pleasing. If you … Read more
I Am In Love With My Best Friend. We Are Both Married. Our Spouses Are Not Sexual At All. What Do You Believe We Should Do About This? We Both Can't Divorce Our Spouses And We Can't Break Our Relationship.
I think there can be only one answer: Both of you need to work on your respective marriages, including getting therapy if necessary and probably working out past grievances or unresolved issues, to make sex work. It may be that the problems are unsolvable. But your first responsibility is to find a way to make … Read more
The WORST thing you can do is lie to him or insult his intelligence. Often, guys are wounded NOT so much because you turned him down (although that hurts) BUT BECAUSE HE FEELS HUMILIATED or offended by the way that a woman handles it. If you lie to him -- including by NOT telling him … Read more
My Girlfriend Told Me She Doesn't Love Me But We Sleep Together, Have Sex, Shower And Bathe Together And She Still Lives With Me. Why?
Like it or not, as a man it is your job to romance a woman. It is possible that she is taking advantage of you (but doesn't sound like that to me). It is possible that she is a rare woman who likes sex but just doesn't care about love. But it sounds far more … Read more
Technically, making love and having sex have traditionally meant exactly the same thing. However, in truth, having sex can be done without romantic feeling and so "making love" is many times used to describe an entirely different WAY of having sex, in which every touch is communicating great affection and caring for the other person. … Read more
I Have Become Sexually Attracted To My Widowed Mother-in-law, Should I Try To Find Out It If This Is Mutual?
How about DANG NO! Like N O !!! Would you stand up on your chair and strip naked at a family Thanksgiving? Most things that you THINK will stay secret do NOT stay secret. The weirdness of these relationships being strained in that way will make it very hard to keep everything else normal. Even … Read more
All of these issues are really hard for women to understand. The things that make a woman look beautiful to a man are often very mysterious and perhaps not logical -- and VERY, VERY STRONGLY CHANGE from one man to the next. I remember arguing with my frat brothers in college over the swimsuit edition … Read more