Apoloniusz Idczak
Apoloniusz Idczak voted up Rooster Cogburn's answer

He should respect you enough to not ask you about what you did in that year. You were broke up. Be best if he just forgot about that year and moves on with life. Now that you're getting married, it's best to just forget about past things and look forward to your married life together. … Read more

Apoloniusz Idczak
Apoloniusz Idczak voted up Tiger Paws' answer

If you are miserable now just imagine what's it's going to be like married 24/7.

If he can't forget the past, you need to forget the money you've spent and move on.  It's only going to get worse.