Blaine Molles
Blaine Molles voted up Anonymous' answer

Don't ever think an EX will change because you want them to. A person  has to WANT to change in order for a change to happen. Some people realize what they had after they lost it. Some people just grow up. Things happen in either dircetion. I am a firm believer that a person can … Read more

Blaine Molles
Blaine Molles voted up Sincerity Annabell's answer

I have only seen a few people "truly" change, and their relationships DID work forever after they married. But I did learn a few things along the way about that.

You have to identify what you mean by "change". You can't change anyone's personality, because if they do "appear" different, it's only an act they … Read more