If a man has led you to believe he is on the way out of a relationship that he is no longer in a relationship and you then discover he has been using you and that you have been unwittingly complicit in stringing his partner along then yes tell the partner because it forces him … Read more

Yes, tell...if you don't it's telling him that he can get away with disrespecting his wife and marriage and that it's okay to screw you over.  I hate guys like that.  Don't let his "threats" scare you---there are plenty of laws and things that can protect you from harassment from him.  He had his cake and ate it … Read more