Penny Kilday
Penny Kilday voted up Darik Majoren's answer
my partner has suddenly stopped having sex with me and its even a chore to kiss me also I stay with him as I don't have anywhere to live and he is not cheating on me at least that's a good thing I feel like a celibate lodger?

The three "C's" is what is needed . . .
Communication

Communication

Communication

Why is "Sex - No Sex" an "I'll stay with him" . . . Thing?

Apparently, you've let this go on too long, and now it is resentment that you have. Engage in discussion . . . Healthy discussion is sharing feeleings good or bad.