Personaly if sum1 can't look you in the eye when speaking to you the I think the r not being 100% truthfull,maybe telling you some of the truth but theyre version hmm

She is obviously that drunk that she is so relaxed,she cannot control her bodily functions"shame actully as if she does not have a bladder problem then shes is drinking far too much for her body to cope with" sorry but true

You may have a problem called "bacterial vaginosis"which is from the thrush family,also if you n your partner have vigorous sex"rough sex" then that wont help!!Hope this helps