if you take 195 and divide it by 2 you get 97.5 which I would say is your answer.

I think you should ask him to go out with you if you truly like him.

No absolutely not . I have straightened my hair for over a 5 months and it has not fallen out yet.

I feel it depends on if they are hippy or bony . But most of the time I think clothes on rather skinny people look nice.