Melchior Gapinski
Melchior Gapinski voted up Gator Blu's answer

No there is nothing wrong with that...at first. Two and half years, is going on too long. You are living in the past and that is not healthy. You need to start focusing on the here and now. You could be missing out on someone even better because you are so focused on something that … Read more

Melchior Gapinski
Melchior Gapinski voted up Bikergirl Anonymous' answer

There are many stages of grief .. And losing someone you love, even if it means they simply moved away, you would experience a sense of grief.  Sounds like you are stuck in the mid range of that process.  Holding on to it is doing no one any favours, and you are far too young … Read more