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elton freel thanked Ancient One's answer

I would suggest someplace where you all could have dinner in a private room. I would set the room up so everyone can talk to everyone else. You will be celebrating your 75 years of life and will want to remanence. You could show a video of old news reels of the era. Play music … Read more

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elton freel commented on PJ Stein's answer
I appreciate your kind comments. I have lived in the same house in the same town for 51 years. I have contact with some of the women in the picture, often. I am really hurt and shook up over this, I feel someone has ousted me.
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elton freel commented on Firstname Refreshme lastname's answer
I cannot be in this relationship where there is constantly verbal abuse and disrespect for my feelings. Going on for 4 years.
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I take it that couples therapy is out of the question and is probably something he won't attend.

Have you considered approaching him with the option of an open relationship ?

The both of you maintain your bond, your finances, your social life but are able to see/ date other people. It may improve your relationship … Read more