It's a good step that you are aware of your tokophobia. The next step is to talk to an obstetrician about treatments for this. There could be medication and/or psychological help available.

As an aside, what does being a Christian have to do with your question?

I've never heard anybody put better than Nero's Mom, on Ask. She said, "The secret to a happy marriage is having a shadow when there is no sun in sight." The same criterion can be applied to success.

St. Paul probably hit the nail on the head when he said, "I have learned, in whatever state … Read more