Mil Garus
Mil Garus voted up Tom Jackson's answer

I would wait a few minutes before calling for the napalm.

First of all, neither what she is doing nor the male equivalent is not usefully classified as perversion.

And whether you found out about it by accidentally walking in on them or by "spying" on them---don't let that distract you from the real issue.

And the real … Read more

Mil Garus
Mil Garus voted up Veronica Dultry's answer

I am just adding this because of your comment to Otis. Because there are some good answers here.

You say you are concerned because you feel she has misguided love for him? Maybe. Maybe not. If you are concerned about that when things are calm have another conversation with her. Explain her worth. Explain that you … Read more