It's my first time wearing kinda tall heels, and is there exactly how loud the heel clicking should sound?! Where's the line between "normal" clicking and "stomping too hard" clicking?

the normal sound of heels clicking on the ground is that of a dinosaur crushing cars. Everyone looks at you when you walk in the room.

No biggie!  They all click.  I find the acoustics matter as much as the heel.  I've been walking down marble floor hallways, and it sounds like someone is hammering a nail.  Every click echoes!  The same shoes in a more open area sound quieter.

Don't worry.  There's no noise restriction law.  That bit of legislation is tied up in a senate committee.

Do be careful not to twist an ankle, step in a grate, sink in the grass, etc.  I hope you found a pretty pair you like!  :) 👠

Dear Star Gazing,

The key here is softness, subtlety, understatement...

At 14, you are coming into an age of exploring your feminity, and everything about you can tell the world, "It just feels so good to be a woman."

Just keep in mind how beautiful you naturally are, and let your natural presence reflect your feminine beauty into the world...

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So walk softly with a lovely smile, and soon you will come to know instinctively when to click them lovely heels just a tiny bit more definitively!