As long as you have a good heart and personality? It shouldn't matter either way. Beauty is only skin deep !
How to get over from being really good looking and turning ugly and unattractive?
I have met sooo many people who would be perceived as "good looking" male and female, only to find that on the inside they were just gross...fake....and uncaring as they come. When I meet people like this, I go on about my business and they are easily forgotten.
Dear Anonymous,
First of all, may I just acknowledge the tremendous sense of loss... When one's sense of self would naturally be tied to physical beauty, and then gone.
1. So I would begin with just some time to grieve; simple things the person might enjoy like watching good movies, perhaps a counselor - getting reoriented and allow time to begin its healing work.
2. Next, when ready, to open oneself to the possibility that this new countenance is just another way to experience the world, with different lessons, different sorrows and joys. And there may be some hidden surprises, perhaps the fact that the friendships you form now are with people who have a finer sense of meaning and value in life.
3. And that in turn opens to the possibility that one's life after losing physical beauty could end up even deeper and more fulfilling than the person ever thought possible.
At the risk of asking a question about a question .. How does one 'turn ugly and unattractive' from being good looking?
.. Or are you feeling down about yourself and your self image?
