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Are curfews effective in terms of keeping teens out of trouble?

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Ray Dart answered

I arrived in Hamilton, a town in Scotland. I stayed at a local award-winning hotel. My room was in an "annex", about 70 yards from the main entrance. I parked up, as close as I could to the annex entrance, and opened the front door, there was another locked door inside. I eventually got that one opened and found my room. I dumped my bags inside and went back to my car.

It had been broken into in the 6 or 7 minutes that I had been away from it and many things (including my laptop) had been stolen.

Why am I telling you all this?

Hamilton (where I was) was at that time the only town in the UK where a "curfew" was in place.

Apparently my car was probably trashed by 10 or 11 year olds, from a local housing estate and not "street" at all (or likely to care about curfews).

Curfews are usually pointless anyway, unless you have at least as many people to enforce them as there are likely to be breaking them.

Incidentally, I was called to give evidence against a 15-year-old who was found in possession of my laptop. I travelled to Glasgow, reported to the court to be told that the accused had absconded.

The Procurator Fiscal's office paid me £76 for my trouble.

I had a half written book on that laptop.....

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Ray  Dart
Ray Dart commented
Hey PP. I'm OK, I'm pretty insulated against all the current industrial action. I sympathize with those who are not so lucky. What really annoys me is that there is probably no reason to take industrial action. Well-paid people with good jobs now think it reasonable to strike at a time when it will mainly hurt people who are less fortunate than they are. It's hateful, and I thought we had got over all that. I disliked Maggie Thatcher on many levels but a bit of her in Theresa May would be probably be a good thing right now.
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@Ray-Did you get the car back? Just curious.
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Ray Dart commented
I never actually lost the car (which was actually owned by my company, anyway) I never saw the laptop again. I checked with the Hamilton Police, who said that it had gone to Glasgow in case it was needed in evidence. I checked with the Glasgow people, and they could not trace it. It contained two half-written books, and as a good computer professional, of course, I did not have those backed up.
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Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

I never thought so. I never paid attention to them when I was a kid. I don't think they're effective one bit as most parents just don't keep good enough track of their kids anyway.

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My mother had a curfew for my no good drunken father when I was a kid & if he got home late he would sleep with our dog in the garage. After 2 or 3 cold nights he was never late again. It sort of makes me think twice about getting married 👰.
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Rooster-Before I forget all the best to you & your family for Xmas. Sorry to hear that you are no longer a mod...From Jana,Maddy,Stuart,Chloe the cat & Don Don,Spyro,Kelly,Turbo,Tripod (3Legs but really runs fast),Sox,Ben & Lucky 🍀 (Our dogs).
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Rooster Cogburn commented
After two bad marriages? I'm done with that stuff ! LOL. Seasons Greetings to you and yours ! :)
Megan goodgirl Profile
Megan goodgirl answered

no.

Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

No, I don't think they are effective. Some kids have no problem abiding by the curfew time. However, you will get the other kids that think that rules don't apply to them so no matter what you do, they will find another way to do what they want.

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PJ Stein answered

Are you talking about personal curfews or municipality curfews? Personal ones depends on the parent and the teen. My mother was strict about our curfew. If we didn't make curfew and be home on time, we got grounded and couldn't go out at all. The teens I knew who got in trouble either had no curfew or a parent who didn't enforce one. They would also find trouble at anytime, so a curfew wouldn't have stopped them.

As for a town or city curfew, they can be. I lived near a city that was having a problem with teens fighting in the streets on weekend nights. They enacted a curfew for 10 pm. The first time a kid got caught, the parent had to come pick them up for the police station. The second time the parent was fined. Third time the fine was increased.

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

If your referring to parents enforcing curfews .. Then, yes .. They can be effective. However I'd like to add .. It takes more to parenting and mentoring a child than enforcing a curfew.  Keeping your child out of trouble is not just accomplished by tightening restrictions alone .. There are many factors involved like paying attention ( for example) .

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