A married man separated from his wife for me. I didn't mean for that to happen. But i do want him in my life. What do i do? How should I take that?

I hope you're committed to him because he gave up his marriage for you. They don't call them home wreckers for nothing.

So you didn't mean for him to leave his wife for you? But you didn't mind having a relationship with a married man? He obviously loves you enough or is lured by you enough to leave his wife, do you love him enough to want a committed relationship with him, or was he just a bit of fun? Either answer will speak volumes about your character and what you have learned about yourself.

"A married man separated from his wife for me. I didn't mean for that to happen." - What did you think WOULD happen? Let's be honest with our answer here. The second he mentioned he was married you should have backed off. But since you also wrote - " . . . But i do want him in my life." -  means that what YOU WANT, means more to you then this union between man and a woman. I don't know if you glamorized it in your mind, or someone hurt someone in your life thus, hurting you, but consider those things passed YOURSELF. Place yourself in his WIFE's shoes . . . What would she want you to do.

"What do i do?" - Leave. If you work with him then find another job, if you go out of your way to see him other ways . . . Stop.

"How should I take that?" - I don't know . . . As a personal victory? As Validation that you have what it takes to wreck a marriage? How do you THINK you should take it?

He wouldn't have left his wife unless he was getting some kind of signals from you that you were interested. So what did you men to happen? A fling? That isn't any better than him leaving his wife. It takes two to tango This man is at fault for his wandering ways, however you are just as culpable since you know he is married. As soon as you saw a ring or learned he was married you should have walked away. But it is too late for that now.

Now you have to decide if it worth pursuing the relationship. Just remember that often times a person who cheats and leaves someone will repeat that behavior.

Also if he has a child or children, they come first, NO MATTER WHAT!!! You keep clear from making any drama. If their mother hates you and doesn't want you at the child(ren}'s events, so be it. She has earned that right. And the child(ren)'s life/lives are already being  turned upside down. If he has the kid(s) for the weekend you make yourself scarce, at least at first, so they can bond and work out the new situation. After the some time you can be more involved, but only after the kids know they are still a priority.

How should you take that?---Well, I suggest you ponder how you will react when you are in his wife's position and he meets another woman who seems more attractive to him than you are.

Just like on The Price is Right. It would seem that there is a "zonk" behind any door you choose here.