It's important to keep a sense of proportion.
The worst-hit country in the western world, Italy, has had around 18,000 reported cases. Given that for most people the symptoms are mild for younger, fit people and they don't report the disease, you can probably safely double that number (at least) for actual infections. The number of deaths there has been 1300. So taking the worst figure, the death rate is substantially less than 8%.
Taking a more realistic figure, it's almost certainly much less than 4%.
If you now consider that the vast majority of those who have died have either been over 80 or have had serious underlying health problems, you have to take the cold-hearted view, that a substantial proportion of those people would probably have died with or without Covid 19.
If you look at the efforts of other western countries, the figures are much better, Italy was slow to react to the problem. The death rate for the UK, for instance, appears to be less than half that for Italy. We've had time to learn.
It's clearly a tragedy for those involved, and to quote John Donne - "Anyone's death diminishes me", but it is important to understand the reality, rather than the hysteria, and as has been said elsewhere, trust the professionals for advice, and not the politicians.