Anonymous answered Rachel Welsh's question

I'd hate it, let's be honest. I know I'd get entirely to possessive very quickly...besides I like all the extra benefits of PDA, flirting, giving gifts, random cuddles, and overall having a best friend that's always there for me...that I also have sex with whenever we're up for it.

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Shennamae Stephens
Shennamae Stephens answered

Hey girl, so pretty much if she's too shy to say it to him in person. She should write him a note, deff no texting.. But a card would be nice since it is almost Christmas. Just keep it simple, like I know I said yes to go out with you but she could be … Read more

Darik Majoren
Darik Majoren answered

You classify them as "A Lover" . . . So my guess is that you are in a sexual relationship with them.

Maybe more communication with this individual might clarify EXACTLY what you are to each other . . .

Don't buy them groceries unless you go with them next time . . .

Darik Majoren
Darik Majoren answered

You have a pattern . . . Whether you care to admit it or not, you are best upon following it either consciously or subconsciously . . . Let the person go whom you hurt over an over. They are "Kept" around merely as a safety net for your ego.

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PJ Stein
PJ Stein answered

You apparently care more about yourself than the other person or you wouldn't keep hurting them. That person has every right not to trust you. Frankly, if it were me, you would have been kicked to the curb already.

Tom  Jackson
Tom Jackson answered

Did you not discuss the dollar amount or range up to which that you were willing to help him?

This is worth discussing to find out how this happened for the sake of your relationship.