You must be very young. You're still discovering who you are and what you want. It's way too early to be agonizing about boys. There's no way boys your age are going to be interested in a "relationship" like you are. Just enjoy being a kid while you still are.
Date them both 😄 and get the camp guys Skype
Ebbe, you just have to realize that having a long distance friendship can be challenging. There's probably so much going on that he hasn't had a chance to IM you back. I would send one more message and just tell him that it was great to meet him at camp and if he would like to continue to keep in touch, you guys could Skype and give him that contact info.
Then let it go. Leave it in his hands. The more desperate you sound, the more apt he will be to just drop it - he will consider you "high maintenance".
As for the other guy, if you like him and want to pursue a friendship, you'll have a better chance because you guys go to the same school. You will be able to actually talk to him in person.
You will have this problem all of your life. People will come and go at will. There will be times when you'll meet someone really neat and you really formed a connection and then, due to other circumstances, the friendship will fade away. Learn to try a couple of times to reconnect with someone and then let it go. Good luck.
Sorry to say, but it was a summer fling. They are magical and intense, but as soon as you get back the realities of your normal life the fling fades.
Move on ... He was a camp fling/crush and that's all.
It would appear that he is interested in only a casual relationship at most, or he may think the distance factor is more than he wants to deal with.
Give him a little more time. Then if necessary, lower your expectations of what this relationship can be and decide if it's worth it.
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