I already am a mess who seems put together. My entire life is a mess that seems put together. But I'd rather be the latter.
Would you rather be a mess but seem put together or be put together and seem like a mess?
I'm a mess and seem like a mess.
Can I vote for option 3?
I'm pretty good at "faking it till I make it". So I would prefer being put together, but a mess nevertheless.
Heck ! They both describe me ! LOL
Yep .. I can experience both on any given day .. Sometimes, its hard to tell them apart.
As long as I am "put together" that's all I need.
Function over form if I don't have time for both.
I'm well past the need to impress anybody besid3es myself.
I rarely care what others think as long as I know what I am doing. Though I do like looking put together when I am unsure. So my answer is yes .
Dear Nina,
I will tell you that after 72 years of life it's too much work to appear "put together" any more..I rather enjoy seeming like a mess...
And as to whether I am ever ACTUALLY "put together," I think that is a question open for debate.