Yes, I would.
Okay so I need your thoughts. Would you let your 20 year old daughter drive 4 hours at night by herself on the fourth of July with only having her license (legally) for two weeks? She has been driving longer off and on a little over a year. She will have her cell phone and GPS.
I'd be a nervous wreak the entire time. Will there be drinking?
It's not so much her driving abilities that I would be concerned about it just that evening is notorious with drunk drivers.
Is this trip on that evening a need or a want. (?)
Yes I would.
Yes, I would ... Even though I might do some extra praying. After all, she's a married woman who wants to spend time with her husband.
My heart is with you, Yin. Xoxo
I would. I was driving by myself across the state at that age, without a cell phone, or Goggle maps or Map Quest.
At 20, your job of raising her is over, she's an adult now, pray/hope you did your job sufficiently that she will make the best decisions. Trust her.
I too have gone through what you are going through. I always sat them down (husband and wife) and expressed my concerns and my love for them. I asked, back then no cell phones, they stop and call me every two or three hours; especially when they arrived and left their destination.