we started talking again about two weeks ago. He made it an effort to tell me he loved me, wanted me and never wanted to lose me again. Now those comments have stopped and there hasnt really been much of an effort to see me. I love him and I do believe he loves me … Read more
Of course he is going to put it all on you, he doesn't want to look bad. I hope you learn from this relationship and choose better next time. Just put it down to experience in a few months you will be ok, just move on. Always keep your girlfriends when you are in a … Read more
But memorize this:
Some areas of life are so important and overwhelming that people can be expected to act for and in their own best interest and to assign credit or blame for success or failure in the same way.
The type of relationship you were in, along with the history and expectations that each of … Read more
Ok, he lied to you. He complained if he spent money on you. And generally made you feel bad. Good riddance. You need to get over him. He did not treat you well.
Now as for your sister, she needs to stay out of it. If she is going to spend time with him and … Read more
I think you're treating yourself poorly by not letting this " douchbag" go. When you get older you'll learn that YOU teach people how to treat you . Don't accept less than you deserve... Cos I said so ;)
We were together for a year. I messed up a lot in the beginning because I was afraid to let him. I had relationship issues to do my dad leaving when I was 10. I finally let him in and ended up depending on him for a lot. He was my everything. Towards the end … Read more
I agree that it will take time. That said, you would likely find it helpful if you'd do something to get out of your own head. Like do some kind of volunteer work. Helping others can be the best therapy.
My friend, it takes time. It has only been a month. You really cared for him and it hurts. You have to allow yourself time to cry. If the crying turns into depression you may need a councillor to help you talk things out. You can not go under it, over it, or around it.... … Read more