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Sapphire Ocean commented on star gazing's answer
Should I unfollow him on Instagram, things have sorta been distant between us lately. He once liked all my photos, now rarely does. We're not close but we've gone on vacation together with our families, would it be weird because we're "friends?"
well we've gone on vacation together... I see him every few weeks. People think he likes me too, but because of our lack of recent contact, among other things, I doubt this.
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Sapphire Ocean commented on PJ Stein's answer
A friend of mine took videos and saved them, of me doing silly things while on vacation. I would like those videos, but I don't know how to ask for them without seeming weird or obsessive. Also, this was a few weeks ago so me asking is very random?
Don't you think they'll perceive it as weird? Idk I figured they might think it's strange that I suddenly want the videos now
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Sapphire Ocean commented on Toni Pauze's answer
The mom of my crush said, "I think he's always liked her," to my mom (they're good friends.) But this isn't the first time, she has said it a few times before, but he has not flat out told his mom he likes me. What are the chances she's right?
Well I have. i have had many conversations with this person. however, as a shy person I can't flat out ask him. I've asked him to do things with me before, so we've hung out but I haven't told him I like him or something like that. It's hard because I get SERIOUS mixed signals … Read more
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Sapphire Ocean commented on Yin And Yang's answer
The mom of my crush said, "I think he's always liked her," to my mom (they're good friends.) But this isn't the first time, she has said it a few times before, but he has not flat out told his mom he likes me. What are the chances she's right?
There's a word count on here so I asked a similar question here https://www.girlsaskguys.com/flirting/q2553001-what-does-it-mean-if-a-guys-mom-says-he-likes-you with more information, but I get it's still hard to get a perspective on
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Sapphire Ocean commented on Yin And Yang's answer
We were super flirty and everyone who saw us told me he was into me, but later, he never answered my text about getting together. However, he still snapchats me, what does this mean?
Well thank you for understanding. I usually go anonymous because I ask a lot of questions about guys. This is simply because I'm a girl in high school, just trying to figure stuff out. The last thing I need is people poking fun at me for being "guy obsessed," when in reality I just have … Read more
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Sapphire Ocean thanked Lilly Gray's answer
We were super flirty and everyone who saw us told me he was into me, but later, he never answered my text about getting together. However, he still snapchats me, what does this mean?

Maybe he didn't get your text, or maybe he enjoys talking to you and had no idea how to respond. Just keep talking to him on Snapchat, maybe build a better relationship with him and maybe organise to see him face to face so you can ask properly then?? Hope it goes well!! <3

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Sapphire Ocean thanked Tom Jackson's answer
We were super flirty and everyone who saw us told me he was into me, but later, he never answered my text about getting together. However, he still snapchats me, what does this mean?

Is it possible he didn't get your text?---mine sometimes don't show up until months later.  Or perhaps you did not get his response.

I'd bring up the subject again.  If you don't get a response this time, I say he's not interested in pursuing a diffferent type of relationship with you at this time.

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Sapphire Ocean thanked Jazlyn Bell's answer
This guy (he's in college I'm in HS) I've known for years, is very protective of me. He kindly teases me all the time, and has even fallen asleep on me. Does this sound as though he may like me romantically or just as a little sister?

Maybe it is you romanticising a relationship with him.? You can never know a persons true feelings through actions.

If the age difference is huge, then maybe he is treating you as his little sister. Though, if age isn't much of a difference, then only time can tell. Let the relationship play out, romantic or … Read more

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Sapphire Ocean commented on PJ Stein's answer
So I used to cut but I've been a lot better and haven't for almost a year. I'm nervous when my mom finds out she will send me to therapy. Honestly, I rather talk to her than a therapist. What do I do?
I have talked to my friends about it, I've honestly been a lot better. We went to a therapist for my eating disorder earlier this year and it just made things a thousand times worse. I wish it wasn't like that, I hate having to worry about whether what I'm telling people hurts them or … Read more
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Sapphire Ocean thanked PJ Stein's answer
So I used to cut but I've been a lot better and haven't for almost a year. I'm nervous when my mom finds out she will send me to therapy. Honestly, I rather talk to her than a therapist. What do I do?

Well if it has been almost a year, I think you have a fair point for not going now. You say you would rather talk to your mom, so are you actually talking to her? Come clean and tell her what is going on and what went on.

For what it is worth, talking to … Read more

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Sapphire Ocean thanked KB Baldwin's answer
He's joining the military and will be in another country for three years. He obviously comes home for holidays and things, but three years is a long time... I'm just really scared, could long distance work?

I was in the Navy and away for two years, with only occasional visits home.  We wrote a lot of letters.  Just celebrated our 50th anniversity.  /

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Sapphire Ocean thanked Bikergirl Anonymous' answer
He's joining the military and will be in another country for three years. He obviously comes home for holidays and things, but three years is a long time... I'm just really scared, could long distance work?

Well, I guess you would have to ask anyone who has a loved one in the military .. They too endure and sacrifice willingly. If you are not so willing .. Then,  in your instance the answer is "nope".

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