Molly Burdon
Molly Burdon voted up Yin And Yang's answer
Is it worth worrying about?

My partner of 7 years and I had a conversation last week and it’s left a sour taste in my mouth. He recently told me that if a woman came up to him and asked him if he wanted to see her boobs, he would gladly accept but that would be the end of it. Nothing would come of it. 

(He has had escorts come to his hotel door over the years offering services after she’s finished with his co workers. He travels a lot for his job so the guys he works with tend to buy hookers a lot.)

I’m aware that men look as much as women but I myself am a very conservative person while in a relationship. I have a hard time looking guys in the face it’s that bad. I’m just wired differently I guess. But for him to accept such an offer almost makes me feel worthless in this relationship and that it’s almost cheating. I don’t know whether to let it go or just leave knowing that it will more than likely happen. I know most of you who are guys will defend him to the ends of the earth. I’m not stupid. And for me to even ask this seems a bit pointless. He’s even said he doesn’t care if guys send me dick pictures or if a guy offers me the same as a woman does him. As long as I don’t touch. Which I guess it’s even but I don’t go out of my way for anything.

Breeann, thank you for not asking anonymously. You have some very interesting answers, very different and from different points of view. I am gonna give yet another point of view. First of all you said he is your "partner of 7 years." That's a long time to be only a partner. Why doesn't he commit … Read more

Molly Burdon
Molly Burdon voted up Tom Jackson's answer
Is it worth worrying about?

My partner of 7 years and I had a conversation last week and it’s left a sour taste in my mouth. He recently told me that if a woman came up to him and asked him if he wanted to see her boobs, he would gladly accept but that would be the end of it. Nothing would come of it. 

(He has had escorts come to his hotel door over the years offering services after she’s finished with his co workers. He travels a lot for his job so the guys he works with tend to buy hookers a lot.)

I’m aware that men look as much as women but I myself am a very conservative person while in a relationship. I have a hard time looking guys in the face it’s that bad. I’m just wired differently I guess. But for him to accept such an offer almost makes me feel worthless in this relationship and that it’s almost cheating. I don’t know whether to let it go or just leave knowing that it will more than likely happen. I know most of you who are guys will defend him to the ends of the earth. I’m not stupid. And for me to even ask this seems a bit pointless. He’s even said he doesn’t care if guys send me dick pictures or if a guy offers me the same as a woman does him. As long as I don’t touch. Which I guess it’s even but I don’t go out of my way for anything.

Well, answering as a man, he is probably telling the truth.  It is certainly would be plausible that a call girl may have been directed to his room by a co-worker.

As to the "boobs" that is a little more complicated.  If an individual woman were to come up to me in a private setting and … Read more

Molly Burdon
Molly Burdon commented on Tom Jackson's answer
Is it worth worrying about?

My partner of 7 years and I had a conversation last week and it’s left a sour taste in my mouth. He recently told me that if a woman came up to him and asked him if he wanted to see her boobs, he would gladly accept but that would be the end of it. Nothing would come of it. 

(He has had escorts come to his hotel door over the years offering services after she’s finished with his co workers. He travels a lot for his job so the guys he works with tend to buy hookers a lot.)

I’m aware that men look as much as women but I myself am a very conservative person while in a relationship. I have a hard time looking guys in the face it’s that bad. I’m just wired differently I guess. But for him to accept such an offer almost makes me feel worthless in this relationship and that it’s almost cheating. I don’t know whether to let it go or just leave knowing that it will more than likely happen. I know most of you who are guys will defend him to the ends of the earth. I’m not stupid. And for me to even ask this seems a bit pointless. He’s even said he doesn’t care if guys send me dick pictures or if a guy offers me the same as a woman does him. As long as I don’t touch. Which I guess it’s even but I don’t go out of my way for anything.
But boobs weren’t made for heterosexual men, they were made to feed babies and shouldn’t be seen as tools of arousal :/ I understand what you mean, however and you seem like a very reasonable and logical man.
Molly Burdon
Molly Burdon voted up Tom Jackson's answer
Is it worth worrying about?

My partner of 7 years and I had a conversation last week and it’s left a sour taste in my mouth. He recently told me that if a woman came up to him and asked him if he wanted to see her boobs, he would gladly accept but that would be the end of it. Nothing would come of it. 

(He has had escorts come to his hotel door over the years offering services after she’s finished with his co workers. He travels a lot for his job so the guys he works with tend to buy hookers a lot.)

I’m aware that men look as much as women but I myself am a very conservative person while in a relationship. I have a hard time looking guys in the face it’s that bad. I’m just wired differently I guess. But for him to accept such an offer almost makes me feel worthless in this relationship and that it’s almost cheating. I don’t know whether to let it go or just leave knowing that it will more than likely happen. I know most of you who are guys will defend him to the ends of the earth. I’m not stupid. And for me to even ask this seems a bit pointless. He’s even said he doesn’t care if guys send me dick pictures or if a guy offers me the same as a woman does him. As long as I don’t touch. Which I guess it’s even but I don’t go out of my way for anything.

Well, answering as a man, he is probably telling the truth.  It is certainly would be plausible that a call girl may have been directed to his room by a co-worker.

As to the "boobs" that is a little more complicated.  If an individual woman were to come up to me in a private setting and … Read more

Molly Burdon
Molly Burdon answered Breeann Yarrington's question
Is it worth worrying about?

My partner of 7 years and I had a conversation last week and it’s left a sour taste in my mouth. He recently told me that if a woman came up to him and asked him if he wanted to see her boobs, he would gladly accept but that would be the end of it. Nothing would come of it. 

(He has had escorts come to his hotel door over the years offering services after she’s finished with his co workers. He travels a lot for his job so the guys he works with tend to buy hookers a lot.)

I’m aware that men look as much as women but I myself am a very conservative person while in a relationship. I have a hard time looking guys in the face it’s that bad. I’m just wired differently I guess. But for him to accept such an offer almost makes me feel worthless in this relationship and that it’s almost cheating. I don’t know whether to let it go or just leave knowing that it will more than likely happen. I know most of you who are guys will defend him to the ends of the earth. I’m not stupid. And for me to even ask this seems a bit pointless. He’s even said he doesn’t care if guys send me dick pictures or if a guy offers me the same as a woman does him. As long as I don’t touch. Which I guess it’s even but I don’t go out of my way for anything.

It’s understandable for you to be worried, I would be. You aren’t just insecure. Try and ask him how he would feel if a man came up to you and offered to show you his penis, and you accepted.

Molly Burdon
Molly Burdon commented on Walt O'Reagun's answer
Is it worth worrying about?

My partner of 7 years and I had a conversation last week and it’s left a sour taste in my mouth. He recently told me that if a woman came up to him and asked him if he wanted to see her boobs, he would gladly accept but that would be the end of it. Nothing would come of it. 

(He has had escorts come to his hotel door over the years offering services after she’s finished with his co workers. He travels a lot for his job so the guys he works with tend to buy hookers a lot.)

I’m aware that men look as much as women but I myself am a very conservative person while in a relationship. I have a hard time looking guys in the face it’s that bad. I’m just wired differently I guess. But for him to accept such an offer almost makes me feel worthless in this relationship and that it’s almost cheating. I don’t know whether to let it go or just leave knowing that it will more than likely happen. I know most of you who are guys will defend him to the ends of the earth. I’m not stupid. And for me to even ask this seems a bit pointless. He’s even said he doesn’t care if guys send me dick pictures or if a guy offers me the same as a woman does him. As long as I don’t touch. Which I guess it’s even but I don’t go out of my way for anything.
How are you blaming her for this???
Molly Burdon
Molly Burdon answered Lorna Kelly's question
My mum won't let me go anywhere! I asked her if I could sleep over my friends house and she said she didn't know the parents well enough to let me! I’ve been friends with her for a year! she doesn't let me go on my own for longer than 1 hour. Why?

Talk to her about how her controlling behaviour is making you feel isolated, I feel so sorry for you! :(

Molly Burdon
Molly Burdon voted up Firstname Refreshme lastname's answer
So I just drank salt water to try and make myself sick, it’s been an hour and I haven’t been sick. I’m a bit concerned, any advice?

Why on earth would you do that ?

It's really dangerous to your heart if you drink large quantities of saline. It throws your whole system out of wack.

If you are not throwing up...expect a horrific belly ache followed by a flushing at your other end. Stay close to a toilet bowl and have a lot … Read more

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Molly Burdon thanked Firstname Refreshme lastname's answer
So I just drank salt water to try and make myself sick, it’s been an hour and I haven’t been sick. I’m a bit concerned, any advice?

Why on earth would you do that ?

It's really dangerous to your heart if you drink large quantities of saline. It throws your whole system out of wack.

If you are not throwing up...expect a horrific belly ache followed by a flushing at your other end. Stay close to a toilet bowl and have a lot … Read more

Molly Burdon
Molly Burdon commented on Firstname Refreshme lastname's answer
So I just drank salt water to try and make myself sick, it’s been an hour and I haven’t been sick. I’m a bit concerned, any advice?
So. I’m a recovering bulimic and I don’t have a gag reflex because of it, I had a bad moment where I was convinced I HAD to make myself throw up, I tried this method and I’m having a seriously bad headache, thanks for the warning I had no idea. I’ll never do it again
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Molly Burdon commented on Darren Wolfgang's answer
I live in the uk and suffer from manic depression episodes, I’ve tried medication, none have helped. I’ve been looking into weed and would like to know the safest method for using?
I’d never try marijuana (medical or not) In fear of it worsening my hallucinations. I’m sorry if I sounded hostile I have a tendency to come across as blunt :) I’ve tried 3 anti-depressants, the majority made me over-eat and sleepy, the worse being Doxepin. I’m studying catatonic schizophrenia currently, it’s phenomenally interesting. I’ve always … Read more
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